I came across this quote a while back in the internet, ever since I read it, it has been one of my favorites, everything it says it’s true…
The nature of being a “nice guy”, however, is commonly misunderstood. It is believed that being polite, considerate, friendly, tender, romantic, etc. is what being a “nice guy” is all about and thus those qualities should be avoided, as it is the “jerk”, the rude, the inconsiderate, the impolite, the rough guy who always gets the girl while the “nice guy” is waiting outside in the pouring rain with flowers in his hand.
Yes, the nice guys always get the friendship, no matter what, no matter how much you try, no matter how long you’ve known her, and you will only get seen more and more as a friend. Now I’m not complaining that being friends having a special friend someone you care a lot is bad. I’m just saying… sometimes it sucks just being the good friend while seen a dozen of jerks win her hearts it’s ironic how we live our lives while you give your whole life your everything for her.. She does it for someone else.
It all gets to a point that… she even goes to you as a shoulder, to cry when that other person hurts her… funny thing is… you have to deal with your own pain, of love her and her loving someone else. Thus you have to deal with her drama as well… Yet again after they “patch things up” you get to be abandoned once again… you get to be invincible, where you don’t exist and only is seen when she has a fight or gets hurts by that person she likes.
In some cases she might even tell you, that you are the best thing that has ever happen to her, yet again you still a friend. She might even add that you deserve her heart more than any other men out there, but she still won’t get past seen u as a friend, right? You deserve it but you won’t get it… is like telling someone, you deserve 1 million dollars but of course you don’t have it and you won’t get it, but you deserve it. then again, someone else gets what you deserve and while that person breaks her heart, it gets more and more difficult for you to get out of a friend zone, because she will trust less and less of men’s. That’s life perhaps and that’s they…
“What you want you can’t have and what you can have you don’t want”
That’s why that quote is so true, you can give her flowers, those flowers will only last couple days and go to the garbage, they will probably say thank you as a sign of courtesy. but who she really wish gave her those flowers is the jerk, even thought he don’t give her things she wish he did, such as flowers and other details, even thought is you the friend who does it.. She will still be with the jerk.
That’s all I had to say I know not many people will agree with me, that’s part of life, agrees and disagrees. Good luck in life and if you only get a friendship, adapt and don’t fall in love.
~Peace
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