Anthony's Blog

To know me is to love me. Read this quote a while ago and I stuck with it. does not necessary means if someone knows you they love you, knowing someone can men they have taken their time to get to know you but then gain how much do they really know you? Have they only scratched the surface or have they gone further? Those are the things you should ask yourself do they really know you.
You might think you know someone very much but perhaps you don’t you can’t really know someone to the fullest it takes more than few days to know someone really and only if you care enough or love that person enough than you will have the motivation and interest to get to know them.
Is true, many people have patterns that you can identify and compare it to others and you think you know them but there is so much behind an action that someone might have done is up to you to analyze it beneath its surface is not what they do that makes them different from the same others do is how they do it you can be the same type of person as the rest but what makes it different is what you created to be that kind of person.
There is always a story behind everything might it be hiding their true self protecting themselves from getting hurt or just trying to fit it does not means they are really like that but only those who really get attached and know that person can tell the difference.

Sometimes in life we tend to Look to close to things and we don’t notice it let it be an object a problem in particular you need space to cover it completely if you look in to it to close you might miss things of it in life, problems situations we get stressed out thinking of it specially when it’s a difficult thing to deal with.

Bt looking too close to problems you overwhelm and not see the solutions closely might want to try another perspective, now see. That’s why and outsider see problems different than you. Because you are looking it at it too close since you are living that problem you cant see it in another way while maybe someone will tell you something and you might feel offended of course there are many things people say that are offensive.

Think of it as this way why not back off the problem and think of it yourself as someone else as how an outsider might look at it might help you solve it deal with it by seen another perspective of the situation your mind is clogged when dealing with your own problems see them as how someone else will see it take the pieces and build that puzzle clear your mind and might help you deal with your peoblems in a more relaxing way.

I came across this expression on a movie a while back “best embrace the suck” now see, in life you either got 2 options embrace the suck or keep on whining about things, either way they wont get fixed alone unless you get up your lazy “victim” ass and fix them yourself. Now people love to be on pity and complain about things but none stand up for them and actually do something about it. Either way time will go by or you still are stuck.

There is always a bright side out of the darkest situation; you just need to look for it. Of course it might not be as bright as you expect it to be but there is always light to shed on the darkest room. Sometimes you should take things less to the heart give yourself time relax and think it over. If you get stressed out you won’t function well. You might make choices you will later regret, when a person is frighten mad upset you make choices you can later regret but when people whine about it they are just trying to cover themselves up instead of embrace get out of that buried shell they get in to and look for the way out instead on been sitting around complaining.

Life aint perfect but you sure as hell can make it better on yourself so just embrace the suck maybe it was yoru actions that led to be such thing.

Nyc was scared once announced Irene would hit nyc, of course is better to be safe than sorry true that. But one reason I don’t watch news is because they need to keep u interested in fear scared so you would stay in the news glue up so they can get ratings since they have a 24 hour news channel they need people glue up there with their TV on set on that channel scaring people that it was huge and it was a cat 3 when it still was on the ocean fact is hurricane get strength in the ocean but once they are traveling in-land they can start loosing strength is not like a tornado or a twister that warm water of the Caribbean is like vitamins for them.

Lucky when the hurricane entered Coney island it lost strength already at 60 mph dropped to be a tropical storm yes, of course low sea level areas still got flooded that was to be expected but not like the news claim some areas in new jersey was calmed and nothing big happen even on nyc some areas lost power others did not maybe we are blessed or maybe we lucky whatever the reason is on mother nature hands not the news they just love to scare people off.

Hope thins resume back to normal on the city since am due to flight back home Tuesday hope I don’t get delays and to nc and other places hope you get on your feet quick.